puzzles over puzzles, like a huge sudoku of life… He got keys, I got knees… I’d better make use of ‘em…
cast thy bread…
saturday i went to a friend’s wedding in another town. in my rush i had forgotten to bring some food along and i was not going to attend the reception. i had some money with me but it was about the sum needed to buy the return train ticket. i had thus rejoiced at the …
playing God can be tiresome…
he usually acts like a beggar, although he rents a flat and he dresses rather neat. he strives to get a job despite his condition1 and he owns a go-as-you-pay mobile phone which he uses for writing a “thank you” message whenever i help him with something. suffering of bipolar disorder [↩]
on friendship 2
…and yet, there are cases in which a friendship-based relationship is no longer desired (provided the three criteria listed in the previous post were once fulfilled) . one of the two (or more) persons involved in this friendship is no longer interested in it, that is, one of the three criteria is no longer fulfilled.
on friendship
what does genuine friendship mean? rarity? some say that a person may experience a relationship involving genuine friendship with a very limited group of people. they say that acquaintances are not friends, they’re just people that we know. while this is true in terms of emotional limits, i like to think of acquaintances as of friends …
o posibilă legătură între egoism şi poligamie
da, ştiu, sunt obsedat de dualitatea egoism/altruism. am impresia în ultimul timp că totul se rezumă la ea. tot ceea ce se întâmplă în jurul meu se rezumă la interesul personal care pierde sau câştigă prioritate în detrimentul binelui/confortului celuilalt. îmi mai dau seama de un lucru: atunci când urmăresc interesul celorlalţi, câştigul este şi …
dump4
[despre mine] sunt uşor impresionabil… avantaj şi dezavantaj… mai degrabă dezavantaj cred… nu ştiu… [despre blog] o nouă regulă (as of 2010-08-23,01:52 am): încerc să nu amestec stilurile şi gândurile. încerc să mă las de artă, cel puţin aici. nu o las neapărat de tot însă suficient cât să se distingă mesajul – ajung la …
altruismul şi egoismul (în dialoguri)
[părerea mea] ascultarea e aparent interesată şi sincer interesată. dintre ele, utilă pe termen lung e doar a doua. prima nu face decât să creeze un fals sentiment momentan de apropiere. ascultarea interesată e şi ea egocentrică – ascult pentru că în final îmi e (în primul rând) mie de folos – sau altruistă – …